(Most of the time they are enemies?) You have to have something to stay together. So mostly it’s the enemy’s energy that makes you feel… strikes you. Like something’s there, so you begin to pay attention to that person. This is the force of karma! The guy is ugly, for example. But because of the karma, you think he’s the most attractive guy on the whole planet.
(Are we able to see if the relationship is based on karmic enemy or on love?) Yes, you can see, you can see. But you have to really be fair and objective. When you are in it, you can’t see much. But basically, if you can get on well, like 70% of the time, like 70% happiness, 30% rubbing or fighting, then you can say that it could have been... it’s a chance that you have good relationship before - either friends or relatives, or lovers. But if you’re only like, 50 or 50-something or 50-less, then you’d better get out, baby! Otherwise, oh, I don’t know how you practice. If anytime, if you have a relationship, and anytime, any moment at all, there’s trouble arises - even in a candlelight dinner or anything there is something always happens, then you should know that’s enemies. Or just continue until it solves. Or continue next life until it’s all erased. Or get out!
(No, but we cannot get out.) Cannot? (We can?) Can, oh well... Of course, you can! It’s up to you. Sometimes you get out of that relationship, and you pay something else. So, it’s always a price. But sometimes it’s the time you get out. If you feel really strong urge to get out, then that means it’s time. It’s time. Sometimes you want to get out but you can’t, then maybe it is still too strong. But we are practitioners - you can be strong, strong will, and you have a lot of spiritual merit. You can pay a little bit for that so that you can get out.
(I just want to be sure if I meet someone that I know that it’s based on love and not on the...) Understand. Well, you can feel it, you know? You can feel it. If it’s harmonious and sincere... You have to really watch out. Another thing, you can also look into, like... a Chinese horoscope. It works! So if you happen to meet the one that’s opposite your zodiac sign, that’s not supposed to be, then you’d better stay away. It doesn’t matter karma or not karma, it really makes trouble. In Chinese, they believe, for example, if the Monkey lives with the Tiger or the Snake lives with the Pig, then it doesn’t work. What is it? You want to say something? (I know.) You know it? (My sister is a Monkey.) And you? Tiger! (Tiger.) So you don’t get on well. Always friction. (We are... we try to not be too much fighting, but...) But there’s always something, huh? (You feel it’s not...) Yeah, you feel it’s not harmony. (We are not to quarrel or something, but you just feel it’s not...) The feeling, I understand. Even if you don’t quarrel, but inside you don’t feel like you can work with that person. (Yes.) It doesn’t matter what he does or not does, or quarrel or not quarrel, there’s a disharmony feeling inside. But a spiritual practitioner can also overcome that, but still difficult. (Can two of the same signs be together? Two same signs.) Two same signs, it depends. (Depends.)
Anyway, just pray that you meet a good one or nothing. That will be the best solution. Otherwise, you can never tell.
